Listening vs Fixing in Relationships: A Psychologist’s Perspective on Couples Counselling in Vaughan
As a psychologist providing couples counselling in Vaughan, I often work with individuals—particularly men—who have been socialized to approach problems by finding solutions. While problem-solving is a valuable skill, this mindset can sometimes interfere with emotional connection and communication in relationships.
In many relationship conflicts, what a partner needs most is not a solution, but to feel heard, understood, and supported. Learning when to listen rather than fix can significantly improve emotional safety and relationship satisfaction.
